隔路同行：高中密友的大学友谊问卷
Questionnaire on Friendship between Close High School Friends at College

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1.
 你和这位初高中密友目前是否在不同城市读大学？
Do you and this close friend from junior or senior high school study in different cities?
A. 是，异地就读
Yes, we study in different cities
B. 否，同城市就读
No, we study in the same city
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2.
你们成为密友是在哪一阶段？
When did you become close friends?
A. 初中
Junior high school
B. 高中
Senior high school
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3.
 和初高中时期对比，你如何评价你们当下的亲密程度？Compared with the days in junior or senior high school, how would you rate your current closeness?
明显疏远 Obviously drifting apart
稍微变淡 A little less close
没有明显变化 No obvious change
更加亲近 Closer than before
说不清 Hard to tell
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4.
你平均多久主动和这位密友联系一次？
How often do you take the initiative to contact this friend?
几乎每天 Almost every day
每周2-3次 2 to 3 times a week
大约半个月一次 About once every two weeks
一个月及以上才联系 Once a month or less
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5.
你是否担心，因为各自全新的大学生活，你们慢慢走散？
Do you worry that you will drift apart due to your separate college lives?
经常担心 Often worry
偶尔会想 Worry occasionally
很少担心 Rarely worry
完全不担心 Never worry
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6.
你们是否出现话题变少、难以互相共情的情况？
Do you have fewer shared topics or find it hard to understand each other?
经常出现 Often happen
偶尔出现 Happen occasionally
很少出现 Rarely happen
完全没有 Never happen
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7.
你们一般通过哪些方式维系联系？（可多选）
Which ways do you use to stay in touch? (Multiple choices allowed)
【多选题】
线上分享日常、闲聊
Chat and share daily moments online
定期视频/长时间语音通话
Regular video or long voice calls
假期线下见面聚会
Meet offline during holidays
互相分享视频、音乐、有趣内容
Share videos, music or interesting posts
在生日、节日送上祝福
Send wishes on birthdays and festivals
只有遇到困难时才互相倾诉
Only talk when facing troubles
几乎没有刻意维系
Hardly make efforts to keep in touch
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8.
你认为哪些因素对守住这份友谊最重要？（可多选）
Which factors do you think are the most important to maintain this friendship? (Multiple choices allowed)
【多选题】
主动分享自己的大学生活
Take initiative to share college life
愿意耐心倾听对方的烦恼
Be willing to listen patiently
接纳、尊重对方新的社交圈子
Accept and respect each other’s new friends
许久不聊天，再次对话也不会尴尬
Feel comfortable even after a long silence
价值观、想法依旧同频
Still share similar values
定期线下见面 Meet in person regularly
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9.
如果很久没有聊天，通常是谁主动开启对话？
Who usually starts the conversation after a long period without contact?
大多是我主动
Mostly me
大多是对方主动
Mostly my friend
双方轮流主动，比较均衡
We take turns equally
两个人都很少主动
Neither of us tends to start
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10.
 你如何看待“真正的好朋友，就算不常联系感情也不会变淡”这句话？
What do you think of the saying “True friendship remains steady without frequent contact”?
非常认同，不需要频繁联系
Strongly agree; frequent contact is unnecessary
比较认同，但仍需要一定互动
Agree, yet some interaction is still needed
不太认同，少联系就容易疏远
Disagree; less contact leads to drifting apart
完全不认同，必须经常沟通才能维系 Strongly disagree; constant communication is required
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11.
当你们拥有完全不一样的大学生活、各自的新朋友时，你觉得这份友谊会？
When you have totally different college experiences and new social circles, this friendship will:
依旧是我重要的精神支撑
Still be an important emotional support for me
慢慢变成一段温柔的旧回忆
Gradually turn into a sweet memory
持续变淡，最终沦为普通熟人
Keep fading and become casual acquaintances
不确定未来走向
I am uncertain about its future
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对你来说，维系这份从初高中延续到大学的友谊，最大的难点是什么？（选做）
What is your biggest difficulty in maintaining this friendship from junior or senior high school?
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在你心中，这种跨异地大学、延续多年的友谊，最理想的状态是什么？（选做）
In your opinion, what is the ideal state of this long-distance friendship?
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