当代大学生恋爱观调查问卷

第一部分：大学生的恋爱观

What is your gender? 您的性别

man 男

women 女

What is your current relationship status? 您目前的恋爱状态

Single, never been in a relationship 单身，从未恋爱过

Single, has had romantic relationships 单身，有过恋爱经历

In a relationship 正在恋爱中

Being in a crush 处于暗恋中

Just broke up not long ago 刚分手不久

Do you think it is necessary to date during college? 您认为大学期间谈恋爱是否有必要

When choosing a romantic partner, which factors do you primarily consider? 您选择恋爱对象时，会重点考虑以下哪些因素？

	Very important 非常重要	quite important 比较重要	average 一般	not very important 不太重要	Completely unimportant 完全不重要
Personality and temperament 性格脾气
Personality and temperament 性格脾气
Appearance 外貌形象
Appearance 外貌形象
Hobbies and interests 兴趣爱好
Hobbies and interests 兴趣爱好
Family background 家庭背景
Family background 家庭背景
Academic performance 学业成绩
Academic performance 学业成绩
Future plans 未来规划
Future plans 未来规划
Values 价值观
Values 价值观
economic conditions 经济条件
economic conditions 经济条件

What do you think are the main purposes of college students dating? 您认为大学生恋爱的主要目的有哪些？【多选题】

Emotional support, relieving loneliness 情感寄托，排解孤独

Looking for a life partner 寻找人生伴侣

Experience the feeling of being in love 体验恋爱感觉

Everyone around me is in a relationship; I'm just following the trend 周围人都恋爱了，跟风而已

Enhance personal abilities, grow together 提升个人能力，共同成长

Meet physiological needs 满足生理需求

other其他

To what extent do you agree with the view that 'college relationships should focus on the present and not worry about the future'? 您对“大学恋爱应专注于当下，不必考虑未来”这一观点的同意程度

What do you think are the main problems that college students may face in romantic relationships? 您认为大学生恋爱中可能面临的主要问题有哪些？【多选题】

Improper allocation of time between studies and romance 学业与恋爱时间分配不当

Economic pressure 经济压力

The personalities of both parties are incompatible 双方性格不合

The sense of distance brought by a long-distance relationship 异地恋带来的距离感

Parental opposition 父母反对

Future development plans are different 未来发展规划不同

Easily tempted by external influences 容易受到外界诱惑

other 其他

If your friend wants to date during college, how likely are you to recommend it? 如果您的朋友想在大学期间谈恋爱，您推荐的可能性有多大？

10.

Please rank the following behaviors in a romantic relationship from most important to least important according to your view. 请将以下恋爱中的行为按您认为的重要性从高到低排序【请选择全部项并排序】

Loyal and devoted 忠诚专一
Mutual respect 相互尊重
Trust each other 信任彼此
Effective communication 有效沟通
Progress together 共同进步
Romantic surprise 浪漫惊喜

第二部分：大学生的婚姻观

11.

Your attitude towards marriage.您对婚姻的态度.

向往，是人生重要的归宿 Longing is an important destination in life.

中立，看缘分 Neutral, see fate

不婚主义 Non-marriageism

12.

Your ideal age to get married.您的理想结婚年龄

25 years old and below （25岁及以下）

26-28 years old （26-28岁）

29-32 years old （29-32岁）

Over 32 years old （32岁以上）

I don't know. I have no idea for the time being（不知道,暂时没有想法）

13.

What do you think of "dowry/dowry"? 你对“彩礼/嫁妆”的看法是？

It is a traditional custom, and it must be paid according to the standard.是传统习俗，必须按标准给付

It can be a symbol of intention, and the amount can be negotiated by both parties .可以有，象征心意，金额双方协商即可

Not supporting is an unreasonable burden of marriage and love.不支持，是婚恋的不合理负担

It doesn't matter. It depends on the wishes of both families.无所谓，看双方家庭意愿

14.

Do you accept "distance love/restance marriage"? 你是否接受“异地恋/异地婚姻”？

Completely accept that true love can overcome distance.完全接受，真爱可以克服距离

It is acceptable, but there will be concerns and we need to meet frequently.可以接受，但会有顾虑，需要频繁见面

I don't accept it very much. Distance will erase feelings.不太接受，距离会消磨感情

I will never accept it.坚决不接受

15.

Marriage is the most important thing for you.婚姻对您而言最重要的是【多选题】

Emotional loyalty感情忠诚

Economic stability经济稳定

Family support家庭支持

Personal freedom个人自由口

Give birth to children生育子女

Accompany and rely on陪伴依靠

16.

Do you think the main factors that affect the view of marriage and love are ?你认为影响婚恋观的主要因素是【多选题】

17.

What do you think are the key factors to maintain the happiness of marriage? 您认为维持婚姻幸福的关键因素有哪些？【多选题】

Mutual trust相互信任

Effective communication有效沟通

Common values共同的价值观

Tolerance and understanding包容与理解

Economic foundation经济基础

Loyalty dedicated one忠诚专一

Sense of family responsibility家庭责任感

Good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law良好的婆媳关系

18.

If your parents are against your relationship, what will you do? 如果您的父母反对您的恋情，您会如何处理？【多选题】

insists on his own choice and persuades his parents坚持自己的选择，说服父母

listen to your parents' advice and give up dating听从父母的意见，放弃恋情

will be put on hold for the time being. Let's observe for a period of time.暂时搁置，观察一段时间再说

quarreled fiercely with his parents and insisted on his own opinion.与父母激烈争吵，坚持己见

19.

What is your ideal romantic relationship like? 您理想中的恋爱关系是怎样的？

20.

What do you think or suggest about contemporary college students' views on marriage and love?您对当代大学生婚恋观有什么看法或建议？