Questionnaire on the Current Situation and Causes of College Students Choosing Not to Date
1. Your gender
A. Male
B. Female
2. Your grade
A. Freshman
B. Sophomore
C. Junior
D. Senior
E. Postgraduate and above
3.
Your current romantic status
A. Never been in a romantic relationship
B. Previously dated, currently single
C. Taking a wait-and-see attitude, no intention to pursue a relationship actively
4. What is the primary reason you choose not to date for the time being?
A. Heavy academic pressure (postgraduate entrance exam, certificate exams, heavy coursework)
B. Focus on self-improvement and personal development first
C. Limited financial budget, can’t afford the cost of dating
D. Haven’t met a compatible and attractive partner
E. Fear of heartbreak and lack a sense of security in intimate relationships
F. Enjoy being alone and the freedom of single life
5.
In terms of social circles, what stops you from starting a relationship?
A. Busy with studies, little spare time for socializing
B. Narrow social circle, difficult to meet new people
C. Introverted or socially anxious, bad at taking the initiative to socialize
D. Mostly online socializing, lacking offline face-to-face interactions
6. Which statement best matches your opinion on college romance?
A. Romance is not a necessity; let nature take its course
B. Dating takes up too much personal time with low cost performance
C. Fear of long-distance relationship after graduation, unwilling to invest in a relationship with uncertain future
D. I envy couples, but I won’t take the initiative to start a relationship
7. Does your family influence your decision to stay single? (Single choice)
A. Parents advise focusing on studies instead of dating at college
B. Family emotional experience makes me cautious about romantic relationships
C. Parents do not interfere at all; no impact
8. Have you given up dating because of your future life and career plans?
A. Yes, my future plans have top priority
B. Partially yes, I will postpone dating until my life stabilizes
C. No, future plans won’t affect my dating choices
9. What obstacles do you have when trying to establish an intimate relationship? (Multiple Choice)
A. Lack of experience getting along with the opposite sex
B. High mate selection standards that are hard to meet
C. Fear of losing personal freedom and independent space after dating
D. Trauma from past broken relationships leads to resistance to romance
E. Lack of energy to maintain long-term emotional communication
F. Other reasons
10. Will the peer environment around you affect your choice to stay single
A. Most friends are single, and I tend to follow this lifestyle
B. Witnessing frequent breakups among peers makes me anxious about relationships
C. Although campus dating is common, I still insist on being single
D. The people around me have no influence on my emotional decisions
11. How do you evaluate the trade-off between single freedom and romantic companionship? (5-point Likert Scal
A. Strongly Agree: Single life gives me more space for hobbies and personal goals
B. Agree
C. Neutral
D. Disagree
E. Strongly Disagree: Romantic companionship is more valuable than personal freedom
12. Do you agree that busy extracurricular activities (club, internship, competition) squeeze your dating time?
A. Totally agree
B. Partially agree
C. Neutral
D. Disagree
13. Which of the following psychological factors makes you reject romantic relationships? (
A. Fear of being vulnerable in intimate relationships
B. Lack of confidence in personal charm
C. Believe that love will bring unnecessary emotional troubles
D. Prefer to invest energy in friendship rather than love
E. None of the above
14. Are there any other special reasons for you to remain single during college? Please briefly write down your ideas:
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